I tried to match make these two 38 years old boy and girl one month ago. I bought my girl friend to Far East Plaza where he works to introduce them to each other. We met at 9pm becasue he works rather late and he works every day including weekend and public holiday. He recommended and ordered curry chicken rice for both of us. He didn't eat as he has taken his dinner at 5pm because he was very hungry. He said his mother cooks for him as well. So, he just watch us eat! After our dinner, they accompanied me to buy Mcdonald at Shaw Tower across the street. This boy tried to have conversation with my girl friend, but my girl friend hardly like to talk! She sticks with me when I queue for for Mcdonald. When we walks through the underway towards MRT station, my girl friend said goodbuy to me as she was taking bus that way. This boy immediate accompanied her to take bus although she waved her hand "no need". And that's the end of the stories.
My girl friend obviously very firm that she doesn't want to marry a smoker. She said most smokers are chain smoker, and she dislike them regardless boys or girls. For a while, I thought she is too strict. Where to find so many perfect husband? No smoking, no drinking, educated and earning good income. Good man has already been hooked, doesn't he?
I met this boy again two days ago. We chat. He actually has a very close knit family. Her sister already 47, just stay next block to him. He enaged a maid for his mother. Their house has total 3 maids, the other two enaged by his two sisters. His mother cooks every day for the family. Every one, including the nieces, nephew and brother inlaw all come to his house for dinner every day, there is total 19 of them including maids. He drives a car which belong to her sister next block. Her sister adores him as he is the youngest at home.
He usually goes home after work, after taken the home cook food, he will still meet his buddies down the coffee shop for beer session or go out together as he has the car. They have two tables full of them together, as 7 to 8 of them are still single. They are buddies since their young day. The last New Year Eve, they have a party at Mount Faber, they booked 6 tables. They have a sleepless night. At New Year Eve, their shop very busy, he earned about S$200/-on that day. He said he is earning the least is S$60/- a day. Then, he will very angry because his expenses is high, he needs S$4800/-a month. (Of course, you want to smoke and drink every night, employ a maid, drive a car, well, understood any things less than S$5000/- is not possible to maintain that king of life style.)
At the end of the chat, he mentioned they will advice friends who married to spend some time with their wife. He said, "We will respect you if you married a prositute, because the prositute willing to forgo her ten thousands dollors earning to marry you, we admire you. But if you treat your wife like a prositute after you married her, we will look down on you." Well said.
He said my girl friend is too quiet, she is not compatible to him. He has ever experience once a girl wanted to jump down from his flat because he wanted to break off. His mother said to the girl "if you want to jump, you jump la, I don't know where my son is, I also can not find him. " This boy is a filial son, he actually talks to his mother every day. He explained why he break off this girl. He went fishing with his friend, he knows that the girl will hate the sun, so he rather the girl stay at home, he went alone with his friend, but the girl insist to come with him. During the fishing trip, the girl full of complaint, "Sun too hot!.........................." This boy felt very disturb, so he decised to end the relationship. He said if he is married, he will not question his wife where she goes if she goes out. He also expects the same things, "Don't ever ask me where I go!" He wants to have his own life after his marriage.
Wow, after the chat, I realised that I don't understand man at all after all these years and bad experience. Well, I think my girl friend is right, this is not a suitable man for her since she is a homely type. He is still wild and playful. It is better to let him alone than get him into hook.
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